Relationships. Rediscovered. ~ It Takes Two to Connect.
Between you and your partner, there is a space. — Your relationship lives in that space and it is sacred.
Knowingly, but mostly unknowingly, you pollute that space when you’re upset with each other.
There are so many ways to pollute the space—criticism, contempt, defensiveness, refusing to talk, etc. When the space is polluted, it doesn’t feel good to hang out there. You will begin to avoid being together and slowly the connection, love and intimacy fades.
In order to clean up the space and make it sacred, both of you must take 100% responsibility for what you put into the relationship. That’s right…100% responsibility. Although divorce is 50%-50%, marriage is 100%-100%. That means that it takes consciousness on both your parts to create the relationship space where you’ll both want to live.
Additionally, it’s important to know that if you have children, they live in the space between you. It’s their home.
- When your relationship is working, your children are able to grow up and develop in a safe and healthy way.
- When your relationship is polluted, they’ll have to learn unhealthy coping mechanisms to emotionally survive.
In my work with couples, I will teach how to honor the space between you and grow in respect, intimacy and connection. Your relationship, rediscovered.
